The Bible tells us that there is a time to mourn...
...this is that time.
I'm turning 30.
BUT, instead of focusing on the fact that my 20's are over and how sad that makes me, I think I need to reflect on all the awesome that took place during these 10 years.
*DISCLAIMER* This is a very personal post. I wrote it more for me... so I won't be offended if you stop reading now. :)
I began my 20's living with the BEST roommates. Women I really admire.
I was dating the man who I would eventually marry.
I was studying a subject that really interested me at a school where I loved the ministry I was apart of.
I was raising support to move to Lake Tahoe for the summer.
I spent that summer with some of the most amazing people I've ever known and that was where God stirred my heart to head overseas.
I was able to travel. A lot. All over the States. From the west coast for MPD training, to the South to visit friends, to the Southeast for Spring Break and to visit my sweet Great Aunt. (Not to mention JesusLand - for real! There were camels and everything!)
And, then I kept traveling. I got on a plane in August and headed to CO for a week followed by moving to the other side of the world. Literally.
Oh the adventures we had! Learning a new language and culture. Exploring. New foods. New friends. New memories. Priceless. I know I'll never again experience anything like that. I'm so grateful for that time. If nothing else, I feel like I walked away from that year with such a bigger understanding of God and His love for ALL people. Invaluable.
During my time overseas, year 22 started...
More traveling, more exploring, more new friends.
|Don't mind me looking like a mess... it was humid!|
Returning to the States was hard. It was so difficult to bring the person I had become and the experiences I had back to people who hadn't seen me evolve in those ways, and therefore expected me to be the same girl who left. I just wasn't.
Some friendships were strained, others were blossoming.
I got a job I ended up LOVING as a barista at Starbucks. Seriously, best.job.ever.
I officially moved to Green Bay.
John proposed. :)
I graduated from college.
We were planning the wedding while he was living his new-found dream of working with livestock in the mountains.
And, then he returned and we got married!
One of the best.
Even though being married brought challenges and we lived in our fair share of crummy apartments, we had an awesome first year.
I was actually using my degree in the Psych world. It was a hard job, but I took comfort in the fact that this was what I trained for.
Some girlfriends and I started our Core 4 - which ended up being one of the BEST things that I've ever being apart of. Ever. I'm so grateful.
New friendships were forming and growing.
I joined the worship team at church.
God was definitely starting to build a foundation of authentic friendships and great leadership in my life. I had no idea.
And, apparently I didn't take too many photos...
Very shortly after my 25th birthday, we found out we were expecting our first baby.
My Core 4 changed a bit.
I started in a Titus 2 Homemaking Group. Loved every minute.
We moved... again.
We had the Little Mister show up early (but not too early). :)
I started playing around with a nice camera.
I quit my job to stay home with the Little Mister and do in-home childcare.
My Core 4 and I got closer and closer. (That'll happen when you all have your 1st babies within 6 months of each other)
We moved again.
Oh, you know, I just ran a marathon. No big deal.
And, then we got pregnant with the Little Miss.
Her pregnancy was pretty rough and we had to say goodbye to my sweet grandmother and my great-aunt.
We made even more memories with our sweet friends.
John got hired on by a camp in Colorado to be their Equestrian Program Manager and we started raising support.
And had the Little Miss.
Ev went back into the hospital shortly after my birthday which post-poned our next move temporarily.
Then, we moved... again.
This time it was into my in-law's house so we could save up some money while we raised the rest of our support.
We spent the spring there and then...
...you guessed it. We moved.
Out to CO this time to work as missionaries at a Christian Camp.
We had a blast getting to know our sweet new hometown and the ways of the camp.
We came back to WI for my Gparent's 60th Anniversary celebration and we had Evie dedicated by my Uncle David.
And, guess what? WE MOVED AGAIN.
(but this time it was TOTALLY worth it) :)
One tough thing from this year: Evie was diagnosed with seizures.
I spent a lot of time with the kids at the park and the library, getting to know tourists and locals.
We thoroughly enjoyed the busyness of camp and town.
Friday horse shows were my favorite.
And, we got to play - we snowshoed, hiked 14'ers, camped out, went to the hot springs, explored on horseback, I learned a little more about training horses and was able to contribute to camp by playing photographer.
My family came out to bring my nieces and my cousin's daughter to Horse Camp. They were here for the 4th of July, which is THE BEST here.
We were able to travel back to WI for my grandmother's funeral, the annual family trip with John's family, Christmas and John's grandpa's funeral.
I did have a little accident with the truck, but God provided through it.
Some sweet friends came to visit.
SURPRISE! We moved again! This time onto camp property.
We also added a little lady to our family.
So, I guess, all things considered, saying goodbye to my 20's isn't the worst thing.
I've come a long way... and I've had awesome friends and family on this journey with me.
I'm so grateful.
And, I'm excited to see what my 30's will bring!
I guess we'll see!